Why Don’t I Have Any Money?

Why Don’t I Have Any Money?




Financial Freedom…….

I imagine when you read those words, you have a picture in your mind of what that would look like for you–money to travel without having to pinch pennies, money to enjoy a shopping spree, money to splurge on your grandkids, money to give lavishly.

I think the bottom line for most people hearing the words “financial freedom” is the dream of having enough money to do what you want without any financial stress. That definition probably sounds like a lifetime goal, but I would like to proffer that achieving that kind of freedom can start today by spending your money ON PURPOSE!

When you know how you are spending your money on a monthly basis, you are being intentional about your financial goals. You have freedom. You have the power to shape how each dollar is spent. You don’t get to the end of the month and scratch your head wondering why you don’t have money to put toward vacation. I believe that most people have no idea the mental freedom that can be achieved just by being this intentional. I would be elated to think that those of you reading this blog are feeling hope in the idea of “crunching numbers” and tracking where your dollars go instead of feeling the common frustration that says, “I have tried this kind of thing before, and it doesn’t work.”

There will be some future blog posts sharing some very specific ways for you to gain daily financial freedom, but you need to hear this cry. “You can do this!!” Change your focus from “Someday I wish” to “Here’s today’s freedom!” If reading this has inspired you to take action and you would like to get some specific steps right way, contact Life In Abundance to inquire about personalized financial coaching packages.

by Karina Whisnant, Board Certified Christian Life Coach


How to Be Still

How to Be Still

A-023 Be still and know

Many of us are familiar with Psalm 46:10, “Be still and know that I am God.

But what does being still really look like? Why does God call us to “be still?” How exactly do we go about this?

When thinking of what it means to be still or silent before God, we may have feelings either of anticipation or anxiety. Some of this is influenced by our experiences, but also a great deal by our temperament. Those who lean more toward introversion usually find it easier than their extroverted friends.  Nonetheless, it is important for all of us to lean into the command to “be still.” Learning to do this is both a gift and a discipline.

I believe God is always present and speaking, but it is up to us to position ourselves to hear and experience Him.  If we do pay attention for a moment, we become aware there are a myriad of voices in our mind, the voice of self, the world, others, and the enemy that seem to clamor the loudest. It is when we learn to more and more tune out those voices, we began to clearly hear the quiet voice of God speaking messages of love, truth, and wisdom.  Isaiah 30:15 tells us “In repentance (turning toward God) and rest is your salvation; in quietness and trust is your strength”.

So how do we “be still”?  First of all, it is not going to happen overnight, and like all disciplines, it involves training and practice. It is important to remember it is a process, and your desire and effort, not your success, are pleasing to God.  Here are a few ways you can train yourself to “Be still.”

Pray. Before you begin, pray, telling God of your desire to hear and experience Him deeper, ask for protection, ask Him to sanctify and bless this time, and offer it as an act of worship to the One you love.

Breathe.  Most likely the first thing you will experience when you become still is what Henri Nouwen refers to as “monkeys jumping around in a banana tree”, a myriad of racing thoughts, images, and, and confusing ideas. Don’t despair, that is normal. I find it helpful to breathe deeply, inhaling through the nose for 7 seconds, holding for 4 seconds, then exhaling through the mouth for 8 seconds. Do this for at least 8-10 times or until your mind begins to settle.

Hold Your Palms up and down. Holding your palms downward on your lap, bring to mind whatever is weighing on your heart and mind and give it to God, envisioning your cares slipping from your downward palms into Gods sovereign hands. After spending some time doing this, turn your palms upward on your lap as an expression of your desire to receive from God the forgiveness, peace, comfort, healing, or whatever He has for you

Practice Centering Prayer. Choose a calming word (examples: Jesus, grace, peace) As you breathe slowly and evenly, focusing on Jesus’ loving presence in and around you and quietly say the word from time to time.

With all of these, remember you do not need to make anything happen, nor is there a right way to do them; simply be open to whatever God has for you. The continuing practice of this discipline actually causes changes in the brain, thus we are being “transformed by the renewing of our mind” (Romans 12:2) as we do them. May God bless you as you pursue stillness.

By Debbie Grainger, Certified Temperament Counselor

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